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Journal of the Conversations of Lord Byron
A January 2nd dinner party
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JOURNAL

OF THE

CONVERSATIONS

OF

LORD BYRON:

NOTED DURING A RESIDENCE WITH HIS LORDSHIP

AT PISA,

IN THE YEARS 1821 AND 1822.


BY THOMAS MEDWIN, ESQ.

OF THE 24TH LIGHT DRAGOONS,

AUTHOR OF “AHASUERUS THE WANDERER.”


LONDON:
PRINTED FOR HENRY COLBURN, NEW BURLINGTON STREET.
1824.


I think I can give no stronger proof of the sociability of Lord Byron’s disposition, than the festivity that presided over his dinners.

Wednesday being one of his fixed days: “You will dine with me,” said he, “though it is the 2d January.”

His own table, when alone, was frugal, not to say ab-
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stemious*; but on the occasion of these meetings every sort of wine, every luxury of the season, and English delicacy, were displayed. I never knew any man do the honours of his house with greater kindness and hospitality. On this eventful anniversary he was not, however, in his usual spirits, and evidently tried to drown the remembrance of the day by a levity that was forced and unnatural;—for it was clear, in spite of all his efforts, that something oppressed him, and he could not help continually recurring to the subject.

One of the party proposed Lady Byron’s health, which he gave with evident pleasure, and we all drank in bump-

* His dinner, when alone, cost five Pauls; and thinking he was overcharged, he gave his bills to a lady of my acquaintance to examine.† At a Christmas-day dinner he had ordered a plum-pudding à l’Anglaise. Somebody afterwards told him it was not good. “Not good!” said he: “why, it ought to be good; it cost fifteen Pauls.”


† He ordered the remnants to be given away, lest his servants (as he said) should envy him every mouthful he eats.

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ers. The conversation turning on his separation, the probability of their being reconciled was canvassed.

“What!” said he, “after having lost the five best years of our lives?—Never! But,” added he, “it was no fault of mine that we quarrelled. I have made advances enough. I had once an idea that people are happiest in the marriage state, after the impetuosity of the passions has subsided,—but that hope is all over with me!”

Writing to a friend the day after our party, I finished my letter with the following remark:

“Notwithstanding the tone of raillery with which he sometimes speaks in ‘Don Juan’ of his separation from Lady Byron, and his saying, as he did to-day, that the only thing he thanks Lady Byron for is, that he cannot marry, &c., it is evident that it is the thorn in his side—the poison in his cup of life! The veil is easily seen through. He endeavours to mask his griefs, and to fill up the void of his heart, by assuming a gaiety that does not belong to it. All the tender and endearing ties of social and domestic life rudely torn asunder, he has been wandering on from place to place, without finding any to rest in. Swit-
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zerland, Venice, Ravenna, and I might even have added Tuscany, were doomed to be no asylum for him.” &c.


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